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The Fred Phelps freak show.
As the first funerals begin in Tucson today, the family, friends and people of Arizona were at least spared one further agony. The Fred Phelps freak show did not come into town.
The Fred Phelps freak show is also known as Westboro. There is more to the title, but I refuse to call them a Baptist Church because they are neither Baptist, nor are they a church. Baptists are some pretty nice people and I would not want them or churches associated with the Fred Phelps freak show in any way.
Tucson’s reprieve came about because two talk show hosts offered to give time to members of the freak show if they would not picket the funerals. Arizona rushed through emergency legislation to keep them at least 300 feet away from the funerals and Tea Party groups were mobilizing to create human barriers to save the families of the victims any further grief.
In all of the discussions about Fred Phelps, there are two facts that are left out. First,Phelps is a media whore. Second,he is a bully.
In the era of news where, “if it bleeds, it leads,” the Phelps freak show is tailor made for the evening news. With their outrageous signs and the raw emotions at these funerals, it is a tinderbox just waiting for a spark.
Fred Phelps would be quickly relegated to obscurity if the media just decided to collectively ignore him. He suddenly was in the news when the freak show sent out a press release saying they were coming to Tucson. If the media would ignore him, he would eventually slither back into the sewer from whence he came.
Phelps in the end is a bully. He picks on people at their lowest moments. He picks on people who will not fight back. That is the problem.
Most of us have stories of dealing with bullies when we were children. Here is mine. I was in the fifth grade, when a kid who was a little older and a lot bigger decided to pick on me. He pushed me around, then picked me up in a bear hug and slung me over his shoulder. I leaned over and bit him as hard as I could in his back. He screamed, and then dropped me. When he did, I turned around and hithim as hard as I could. I don’t know if I bloodied his nose, but I know this, he never bothered me again.
Over the last fifty years, this country has progressed in so many ways and most people would say we are clearly better now than we were fifty years ago. One way we are not is in our tolerance of bad behavior.
Fifty years ago, had Phelps tried something like this, he would be met by not only the police, but also the men of the community he was going to. The police would make sure things did not get out of hand and then politely look the other way while the men of the community educated Phelps on his bad manners.
When Phelps got out of the hospital, he would not do itagain.
We need to remember, Fred Phelps is nothing but a bully and someone needs to figure out the way to deliver the figurative bloody nose to him. Only then, will the Fred Phelps freak show fade away into long overdue obscurity.
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Permalink Reply by Ken B on January 13, 2011 at 2:42pm Are you in Kansas? Let me know if you need help.
Somehow WE need to stop the Freak Shop.
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